I am holding your hand.

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I feel like we need to hear this today. 

Current public discourse and breaking news and personal tragedies and life stresses and national events and expectations of action and more and more and more, empties our reserves and shreds our nerves. We’ve all been surrounded by so many opportunities to feel called on and pushed away and demanded and urged and ignored and lessened and derided and shut into boxes that don’t fit. Let’s hold each others hands more, and let’s help us all get to the other side intact. Continue reading

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Review: Don’t Miss *Star Scouts: League of Lasers*

9781626722811.jpgLEAGUE OF LASERS by Mike Lawrence, the sequel to STAR SCOUTS, is not only fun, it builds wonderfully on the characters and situations that were so enjoyable in the first book. The upcoming graphic novel flips back and forth between scenes of marooned protagonist Avani Patel’s interactions with her nemesis Pam and the efforts of her ever-larger group of friends’ attempts to rescue her. And this time, Avani’s Dad is along for the journey!

The adventures and interactions are more mature and serious in this story, and the relationships are carefully nuanced, but still relatable. Avani and Pam realize that they need each other to survive, and they each find an appreciation for the others’ strengths. Avani is faced with snaring (super cute and doe-eyed) animals to survive, and Pam, free from her methane helmet, learns to put others’ needs before her own in both small and hugely dramatic ways. Continue reading

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Don’t be like FEMA ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

941744406620643329Shrugging and poking fun at authoritarian behavior, clicking on Facebook posts about ICE demanding to see identification on domestic Amtrak trains with an angry emoji and calling it activism, and succumbing to ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ over calling and marching isn’t the only unlearned lesson from history. FEMA hasn’t learned from the disastrous lessons of Hurricane Katrina either.

From The New York Times: The mission for the Federal Emergency Management Agency was clear: Hurricane Maria had torn through Puerto Rico, and hungry people needed food. Thirty million meals needed to be delivered as soon as possible.

For this huge task, FEMA tapped Tiffany Brown, an Atlanta entrepreneur with no experience in large-scale disaster relief and at least five canceled government contracts in her past. FEMA awarded her $156 million for the job, and Ms. Brown, who is the sole owner and employee of her company, Tribute Contracting LLC, set out to find some help.

Good intentions without follow-through only help the one with good intentions to feel warm and fuzzy. And blaming others (FEMA blames Ms. Brown, Ms. Brown blames FEMA, the subcontractors blame Ms. Brown, Ms. Brown says ¯\_(ツ)_/¯, and Puerto Rico is left with crackers, chips, and dirty water. Oh, and paper towels. Continue reading

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Life at 23: Happy Birthday, Trayvon Martin

27540197_1801716216565674_492740138872809870_nMillion Hoodies launched six years ago in the wake of the racist and horrific murder of Trayvon Martin. Today, what would have been Trayvon Martin’s 23rd birthday, the Million Hoodies NYC chapter launches their #Lifeat23 campaign to honor Trayvon and the lives lost from police brutality and gun violence. Too many lives from our communities are cut short due to systemic racist practices and prevents young Black and Brown children (and their families) from fulfilling their goals.

Million Hoodies invites you to share pictures and reflections of what life was like when you were 23, or alternatively, what you hope life would be like at the age of 23. Please use #LifeAt23 and share your posts over Instagram, Facebook, & Twitter. Continue reading

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Glad I Saw It: P.A.C.E. Music Group and Rachel Brown

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It always amazes me when spectacular events come together to both entertain and inspire. That’s what happened on this past Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr Day ON. You can read all about it here.

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Glad I Saw It: Managing Big Emotions

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A toddler’s temper tantrum causes headaches. An adult’s outbursts cause conflict. A leader’s inability to handle criticism, stress, and responsibility causes disarray and misery for many.

It seems like we could all use reminders about how to manage big emotions from time to time, no matter how helpless or powerful we may be. If you know anyone who could use this poster, here is the link to the printable.

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Book Review: IS THIS GUY FOR REAL? The Unbelievable Andy Kaufman

IMG_5605Andy Kaufman brought joy, anger, laughter, discomfort, confusion, and deep sadness to his audiences. Whether it was performaing as Mighty Mouse, Elvis, Latka, or the Women’s Wrestling Champion of the World, watching Andy Kaufman in action never failed to elicit emotion. In IS THIS GUY FOR REAL? The Unbelievable Andy Kaufman, an upcoming graphic novel by Box Brown, we are given a hint, more than a hint, of who the real Andy Kaufman was.

Written with compassion, straightforward description, and a tender lens aimed at the eccentric, lovable Andy Kaufman, Box Brown creates a story that makes the reader feel like they’re getting the inside scoop on this entertainer. The graphic novel is an easy read, and it can go fast, but take time to pore over the wonderfully drawn and paced frames. There are details and commentary in the drawings and asides that enrich the biographical aspects of the book. Continue reading

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Intentions and Inspiration for 2018

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I’m not sure if this comes from a TEDtalk by Alexis Ohanian, but he said it in 2012 or so.

In the last few weeks, and really every time one more nutty thing happens at the top rungs of the USA government, I’ve seen more and more people shrug or throw up their hands or just say, “Whatever.” And I get it. I really, really do. Self-care comes in all forms.

When it seems like some people get to do whatever they want and blurt out whatever falsehoods they like with few or no consequences, it’s tough to keep caring about nuance and seemingly sisyphean tasks. And that seeps into caring about the bigger issues. Even the issues that will affect us all for more than a generation. When news tornados include horrifying, eye-rolling, and then mundane issues, the thing we must most resist is apathy.

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My favorite at Women’s March 2016

Apathy is a luxury, a privilege. And many of us have no right to escape into it. That doesn’t mean you don’t take breaks. Do that too. But then come back.

We are in this together. I am holding your hand, and I need you to hold mine. (It’s okay if it’s virtual hand holding. Especially during cold and flu season.)

So how do we keep resisting and persisting and keeping on when there are stubborn and painful fires that need squelching all around us? Often, when I need inspiration, I turn to art and quotations from people I admire. Here are a few I like to keep close by.

 

Together We Rise by Sousa & Machado

Bad Feminist inspired by Roxane Gay

You’ll be criticized anyway from Eleanor Roosevelt

And hey, even if you feel like no one is there to hold your hand, and even if you feel like you’re a bad feminist and a bad activist and a bad human being, and even if the criticism you thought you were ready for hurts and makes you want to give up, know this: You Are Not Alone. There are many of us here with you, trying and failing, getting up and trying again, feeling tired and despondent, hoping for support and then feeling unsure if support is wanted. Even if we don’t agree on every detail of policy and what is good and bad and how to live a worthy life, we can still support one another.

You are loved. You are appreciated. You are needed. You are loved.

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The First Morning After the Darkest Night of the Year

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We know they are coming, those longer nights. We know we will lose the sun. We string lights and burn candles and celebrate to chase away the enveloping dark. We know it is here. And yet we are startled, worried, surprised at the lingering darkness in the morning. Repeated glances at the clock to make sure of the time. To anchor us in our routines. Our commitments. Our lives.

The first night after the darkest night of the year is one of relief and celebration. So I’ve heard. But in the morning after that darkest night, when the tilt of the earth has barely, hardly, doubtfully welcomed the sun a moment earlier, I wonder. Or perhaps I worry. Will the dark push back, refuse to budge, revolt against the promise of the sun? What if Dawn has grown weary of bringing hope? What if we haven’t earned another go around? What if, what if we are just not worth it.

And then, like emerging from a cloud of grief, like waking from a paralyzing dream, like choosing forgiveness, like saying no, Dawn slowly, firmly shrugs off the night and refuses to be overcome. She begins the cycle anew, not asking or caring if we will join her.

We do.

 

 

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Books for Middle Readers: Best Gift Ever

There are so many amazing books out there that make the perfect gift. Throw a cool bookmark on top, and you’re good to go no matter who is on your gift list. This list is for the avid young readers in your life; the ones who tear through books and then look for more. I’ve paired up a few books for those hungry readers so they can be sated for at least a weekend.

Baptiste_JumbiesRise-jkt_rgb_HRMiddle Readers: THE JUMBIES and RISE OF THE JUMBIES by Tracey Baptiste are aimed at the 4-7 graders in your life. With themes of overcoming fear, defending your family and home, and discovering your own strength, and being misunderstood, the stories will appeal to a wide variety of children. The strong, spunky protagonist of The Jumbies and Rise of the Jumbies, Corinne Le Mer, is a likable new hero to discover. In addition, the connections to Caribbean and West African folklore and mythologies makes this modern set of stories feel recognizable and fresh. Together, the books create an exciting story arc that will keep kids reading, and probably re-reading, through school break.

  • Bonus suggestion: Do you have mermaid fans at home? Add FISH GIRL to the pile for an extra dose!

9781419723087THE MIGHTY ODDS and AGAINST THE ODDS by Amy Ignatow follow a group of middle-schoolers with one thing in common: accidentally acquired Slightly Super Powers. This is a fast-moving, fantastical albeit realistic tale of what middle-school can feel like. Personality conflicts and popularity struggles, family and friendship obligations, and learning to appreciate themselves and each other are intertwined with Bad Guys, dangerous mysteries, and standardized tests. The cliffhanger chapters and stories will ensure eager anticipation for the third installment of The Odds Series.

  • Bonus suggestion: Got kids who love the idea of superpowers? Try ZACKTASTIC for some kid-genie adventures.

9780374301309_p0_v4_s600x595A WHOLE NEW BALLGAME by Phil Bildner and RAIN REIGN by Ann M. Martin make an interesting pair of books to give together. With major characters on the autism spectrum, they tell two very different stories with messages applicable to any child facing adolescence and all the conflicts and challenges it brings. A Whole New Ballgame is about friends, Rip and Red, facing an exciting, challenging year in 5th grade. They learn that working with others and leaving your “comfort zone” can work out well. 9780312643003_p0_v4_s600x595Rain Reign focuses on Rose, who has Asperger Syndrome, and how her dog Rain helps her cope with difficult times at home and at school. In this story as well, Rose has to choose to leave her “comfort zone,” albeit in a both literal and figurative way. At once inspirational and heart-breaking, Rose’s narration will help readers empathize with her and root for her throughout the story.

  • Bonus suggestion: Have someone who loves to experience life through different lenses but they’ve already read Wonder? Give OUT OF MY MIND. This emphatic suggestion is from my 10 year old son, as I haven’t read it yet!

This just brushes the surface of what’s out there! Stop by your favorite independent bookstore and ASK for suggestions or browse the stacks. Let us know some more suggestions in the comments! Happy giving and reading!

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