Hey, Parents: You’re Doing A Great Job! {giveaway}

 

30341531There are days, lots of them, that parents need to hear “You’re doing a great job!” There are the days we snap at our children and make them cry (when we are really snapping at ourselves). There are the days you try to go out to lunch and end up mortified. The days your child learns a new four-letter word. Or the days when your adult son needs an ambulance. But all the fretting and rushing and worry of the older years don’t compare to the earliest times when we still counted our child’s life in months.

Whether it’s the monotony, the unknowing about what counts as “normal” or worrisome, or the horror of listening to The Wiggles again and again and again, parenting during those long days that lead to short years often means feeling like a failure. Or, at least, knowing you could have done a heck of a lot better. On those days, the last thing a new-ish parent needs more of is advice. What she or he needs is a hug, a pat on the back, and a reminder that sounds a lot like what overflows in this new book from One Bad Mother podcast hosts Biz Ellis and Theresa Thorn: YOU’RE DOING A GREAT JOB! 

This book reminds parents that it’s okay to have a low bar. Celebrate what did happen, not what didn’t, including gems such as:

Did you get up this morning? Great! You’re doing an awesome job!
Your kid fell asleep? Even if it was just for two hours, that’s amazing. Good job!
Has your kid eaten? That’s probably your doing, so yeah, you’re a winner!

You get the idea. Each page is a new affirmation of the little things that earn you a Good Job! Parents deserve a participation ribbon when they’re having really bad days, too.

{edit: Congrats Alyssa! The book will be in the mail ASAP!} If you or someone you know is a new parent and could use a comforting, understanding, non-judgy hug in book form, comment on this post for a chance to get a brand spanking new copy in your mailbox! I’ll mail one copy to a lucky commenter as long as that person has a U.S. address.

I’ll collect comments until May 5th to make sure I can get the book to the lucky commenter before Mother’s Day. Good luck!

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12 Responses to Hey, Parents: You’re Doing A Great Job! {giveaway}

  1. This sounds like a fantastic book! I love that the focus is on what has been achieved, not what hasn’t.

  2. Lauren Becker says:

    Thanks for sharing. This sounds like a really fun and – and definitely needed – books. I don’t have children myself but I have two nieces and a nephew, and many friends with kids. It’s not easy! You have to celebrate the small wins.

    -Lauren
    http://www.shootingstarsmag.net

  3. lecypoore says:

    I love this! It’s definitely something all parents need to hear from time to time. Sounds like it would be a great book!

  4. Alyssa says:

    The one bad mother podcast makes me feel normal, I plan to get the book and hopefully read it without my toddlers “help”

  5. I am not a parent myself but this was still a great read! I know I will have struggles someday and this is good to keep in mind!

  6. Oooh when I start having kids, I need that book! I love that it focuses on the positive rather than everything that’s gone wrong.

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