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About That Unique* Weblog

Adjusting to the car culture, dealing with leaving a career I love, and spouting off along the way.

Glad I Saw It: Tulips

One of my favorite houses in Montclair always has an amazing garden growing. When we first moved here, I used to make the 3/4 mile walk with the kids to their preschool all the time, and we’d pass this house … Continue reading

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Love is Brewing in Montclair

I love coffee. If I had to choose between wine and coffee, it’d had to be coffee. If I had to choose between chocolate and coffee, it’d be a tougher decision, but I think I’d still choose coffee. And lucky … Continue reading

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NJ Senate Law & Public Safety Committee Hears Gun-Related Testimony, part 1

I taught high school for over a decade, so I have some experience with name-calling and attempts at intimidation. It doesn’t work very well, and it’s rarely effective at helping to get a point across.  Also, I have to say, … Continue reading

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First Weekend in May Brings Out Suburban Weekend Warriors

No need to leave town when you live in mine. Some weekends are comfortable routine, and some are chock full of tantrum-inducing activities. This weekend was exhausting and most excellent - the perfect combination of both. With the Montclair Film Festival … Continue reading

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Preventing Gun Violence In Any Way We Can…Regardless of Politics

I can’t tell you how miserable this video compilation from Moms Demand Action for Gunsense in America makes me.  It’s been an exhausting, educational, heart-wrenching four months since I started working with the NJ Chapter. And somehow, more than other … Continue reading

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Glad I Saw It: Willie’s Back

We’re used to seeing signs like these in salons, but this one is at an auto shop. Congrats on your popular demand, Willie!

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Love Thy Neighbor with Italian Pastry

Today is about getting back to hyper-local love. As I came back from the bus stop yesterday afternoon, I saw a crinkly white bag on top of my mailbox. Oh Jeez, I thought, did someone leave something nasty as a “quit being … Continue reading

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First Response: Reach Out and Touch Someone

From an apartment on Elizabeth Street, just south of Houston, I tried to contact my friend Eileen after the second plane hit the World Trade Center. I remember leaving a message on her cell phone hoping she was okay and … Continue reading

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Four-Year-Olds Have Access to Guns. Real ones. With Bullets.

I don’t even know what to say any more. I just know that I have to say something. Last night, within hours, I received alerts about two different stories involving preschoolers shooting guns and killing or injuring others. This story … Continue reading

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Glad I Saw Her: Sonia Sanchez at MADLOM

“Am I late?” I didn’t stand when she walked in. I felt like I ought to. My heart almost jumped out of my chest – but I didn’t stand when she walked in. Instead, close to an hour after we … Continue reading

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